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Discover How to End the Tension, Rebuild Connection, and Lead Change - Even if They've Shut Down Completely

Save Your Marriage. Without Therapy. Without Compromise. Without Waiting for Them to "Get it".
Inside this Book, I'll Show You How a Mindset Shift and 4 Step Process that Helped me Turn a Disconnected, Emotionally Draining Marriage into one that Feels Peaceful, Connected, and Alive Again - Without Needing Them to Change First. You'll Also See Why the Books, Counseling, & Conversations You've Tried Didn't Work - and What Actually Does


From: Chris Parsons

I know it's going to sound crazy, but almost everything you've heard about building a Happy, Healthy Marriage is backwards...

(And I know because I tried all the "common advice" when my own marriage was falling apart).

I tried to...
  • Communicate more and explain myself more clearly...
  • Give & sacrifice more...
  • Walk on eggshells to keep the peace...
  • ​Beg, plead, argue, and convince her...
  • ​Even marriage counseling - hoping someone else could get her to see...
But nothing I tried worked. In fact, the harder I tried, the worse it got...

Until I finally realized: I wasn't the problem, but my approach was.

That’s when everything changed...

I stopped blaming and trying to fix her… and started taking full responsibility for creating a new outcome...

And what happened next was something I didn’t think was possible…

My marriage, 8 years ago:
 
I loved my wife, but I secretly resented her. I felt unappreciated, unwanted, and like nothing I did was enough...

She felt overwhelmed, disappointed, and unseen - like I didn’t care how she felt....

We fought. A lot. There was tension, disconnection, and an invisible wall between us. We were coexisting… not connecting.

In a nutshell, we both felt hurt, frustrated, disconnected, and angry with each other...

Now...?

She believes in me. I feel appreciated and respected. She feels heard, emotionally safe, and free to be herself. We’re deeply connected, wildly attracted to each other, and more in love than ever - even with four young kids...

Our arguments are rare and resolved quickly. Our sex life is better than it was when we were newly married. And our home is filled with peace instead of pressure...

This isn’t because we got lucky. It’s because I finally discovered the right approach, that worked even though she wasn't on board at first...

Inside 'It Starts With You', You'll Discover...

  • The 4 Steps to Reset Your Marriage - even if your spouse won’t lift a finger right now...
  • Why Communication Isn't Always the Right Tool for the Job - and what other tools there are...
  • ​How to Stop Chasing Love & Start Creating Desire...
  • ​How to Meet your Spouse's Core Needs - without losing yourself or over-giving...
  • ​How to Bring out the Best of in Each Other, For Each Other - without control, nagging, or manipulation...
  • ​How to Rebuild Attraction & Bring Back that Spark - without it Feeling like "Work"...
  • ​How to Resolve Deep Hurts - that Actually Heals, Not just Soothes...
You’ll also get case studies from real people who saved their marriages - even after betrayal, resentment, or years of emotional distance...

If you’re feeling unseen, unheard, or like you’re carrying the emotional weight of the marriage alone…

If you still believe there’s something worth fighting for, but you’re exhausted from trying… This book is for you.

I wrote It Starts With You to give you a clear, proven path to turn things around - not by begging, blaming, or dragging them to therapy, but by changing the dynamic from the inside out...

No perfection required... Just a better way forward.

At 104 pages, it takes less than an afternoon to read but will be the best few hours you ever spend to create a life with more joy and harmony...



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  • A Digital Copy of "It Starts With You"
  • BONUS #1: A Decision-Making Worksheet to Determine if Your Marriage is Worth Fighting For
  • BONUS #2: What to do RIGHT NOW if your spouse is distant or checked out
  • BONUS #3: Simple Solution to “He tries to Solve Her Problems, She Just Wants Him to Listen”


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You’ll receive "It Starts WIth You" digital book and all of the included bonuses.


Bonus #1:

Decision-Making Worksheet to Determine if Your Marriage is Worth Fighting For

Here’s How People on the Brink of Divorce Are Using a Decision-Making Worksheet to Determine if the Marriage is Worth Saving.
Inside It Starts With You, you’ll discover how we transform and elevate marriages. You’ll see how our personal empowerment method works in my marriage and for our clients, and we’ll provide case-study breakdowns of problems married couples face and how to overcome them.

If you are considering Divorce or Separation, Do you want to know whether your marriage is worth saving?  

In this Decision-Making Worksheet, I’ll show you how a Professional Marriage Coach approaches the decision.

We’ll look at the problems, the opportunities, the pro's, the con's, and identify the most important factors to your decision so that you can feel confident in knowing what the next step is for you...

You’ll see how our method compares to other “decision making criteria” out there so you can determine if our model is the best fit for your goals.


Get This Worksheet at NO COST When You Order a Digital Copy of 'It Starts With You'


Bonus #2:

What To Do RIGHT NOW If Your Spouse is Distant or "Checked Out"

How I Restore Love in 1 week Using the "Fishing Hook" Method
Inside this bonus training, What To Do RIGHT NOW If Your Spouse is Distant or "Checked Out", you’ll discover the process we use to get your spouse invested in your marriage's success.

Using the "Fishing Hook" Method is a very different process than you might be used to seeing.

You've probably tried pursuing them harder, or maybe the opposite end of "no contact".  
 
In this training, you’ll get a better understanding of how neither of those strategies are the real key, and what you can do starting TODAY (and if you find yourself here, this book and bonus training should be a priority - don't wait if your spouse is distant!)

You’ll discover how the "Fishing Hook" Method gets them back on the line, biting the bate, and getting reeled in…

...without them fighting against you. 

Here’s the best part: You don’t even need to have a "checked out" or spiritually distant spouse to learn and apply the lessons.

As long as you’re interested in creating a marriage that brings joy to both you and your spouse, you can start using the "Fishing Hook" Method.


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Bonus #3:

Simple Solution to "He Tries to Solve Her Problems, She Just Wants Him to Listen"

Discover the secret belief-shift that helps couples quickly and easily resolve the age-old problem of frustration when a Wife wants to vent to a good listener and a Husband wants to solve her problems...
The next bonus training you’ll receive when you purchase It Starts With You is my Simple Solution to "He tries to solve her problems, she just wants him to listen".

In this video training you’ll discover the small belief shift that forever ends the all-too-common marital issue of wives not feel heard because their husband wants to solve their problems, and husbands feeling frustrated that they have to hear about problems that their wife doesn't want solved.

This framework is how we consistently take this "communication problem" and turn it into a healing, spiritual intimacy building talk that makes both husbands and wives happier.

Discover a new perspective of how to look at this problem, it's root, and it's natural, obvious conclusion that doesn't rely on compromise or putting up with something you don't enjoy. 

Not every marriage has this problem, but it is VERY common to varying degrees. Even if you haven't struggled with it in your marriage, this new understanding will allow you to truly appreciate your spouse's unique tendencies.

Get this simple solution, use it with the method you’re about to discover in the book, or use it by itself to quickly solve a frequent source of frustration in marriage.


The Simple Solution to "He Wants to Solve Her Problems, She Just Wants Him to Listen"… INCLUDED FOR FREE.



It Starts With You is just $4.99 and you’ll get an immediate digital download plus all 3 of the bonuses listed above at no additional cost.

Order your digital copy today and get the exact method I’ve used in my own marriage as well as clients' to create a Passionate Marriage & Peaceful Home.


You've Never Heard a Marriage Counselor Say This Before... It Only Takes ONE to Transform a Marriage.



If you’re ready to try the method we use to build intimacy and trust while restoring your marriage to better than it's ever been without worrying about wondering if there's even a point...

Having a marriage that makes others envious and beg to know your secret...

Getting all of your needs met with a spouse that values and appreciates you...

Finding more success and fulfillment in life with the help of a supportive, encouraging spouse...

...and eliminating the cold shoulder, pouting, toxic arguments, and bitterness that builds up so that you can finally relax and enjoy each other again.

It Starts With You can show you exactly how.

At the very core of this method are these realities:

-> You must own your power to start creating the change, because waiting on your spouse to change makes you feel helpless and powerless, leaving you STUCK...

-> You can get your spouse to care and value you and the marriage...

-> You make sure you both feel heard, valued, and acknowledged for who you are...

I believe this is the best way to resolve hurts and heal wounds because it avoids relying on your spouse to take initiative and empowers you to change things, even if your spouse isn't on board (yet!). 

If you’re ready to stop feeling angry and bitter toward your spouse (and them feeling that way toward you)...

Click “YES!” below, and let me show you our unique approach so that you can elevate your marriage to new heights.




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Here’s a Look at What You’ll Discover When You Get Your Digital Copy of 'It Starts With You'…


  • How We Completely Resolve Hurts​ - no matter how deeply they've been buried or how long they've been festering.
  • Case-Study Examples showing you how we use this method for individuals and couples including an in-depth look at the types of problems we think It Starts With You is best suited to solve.
  • The Exact Path We Follow to take toxic, mean marriages to passionate, peaceful lovers in just a few weeks.
  • ​Creating Attraction Overnight - Many of our clients have gone from a "dead bedroom" with sex only a couple times a year to not being able to keep their hands off each other and more pleasure and intimacy than they've had since they first got married.
  • ​The Reason We’re Able to Transform Marriages Even If Your Spouse Isn't Onboard and a look inside how you can get your spouse on your team.
  • ​Peace and Harmony in As Little As 3 Days - Get the process we use to make it happen and see why all it takes are a few small shifts in how you handle things.
  • ​“Love on Demand” - How I’m easily able to follow this proven, repeatable system to create on-demand love for myself and my clients without having to worry about my wife faking it or just trying to appease me.
  • ​​All While Progressing at Work And With Kids ​so that when energy is applied to the marriage it isn't "stolen" from other places it's needed.
  • ​The 10 Red Flags You're Headed for Divorce and what to do RIGHT NOW if you are seeing the warning signs.
  • ​Why Personal Responsibility Works and why you won’t need to beg, plead, or punish your spouse into changing.
  • ​Marriage Counseling Hasn't Worked - Learn a new process and why a majority of couples who see marriage counselors say their marriage is WORSE OFF afterwards.
  • ​Lessons From a Couple that went from Sex Twice/Year to Twice/Week - Find out what I used to reconnect a couple married 20+ years who had grown apart.
  • ​The Way to Get Your Spouse to Change - Take a close look at how you have changed your spouse, how you want to change them, and exactly what to do.
  • ​Get on the Same Team - Learn how to get on the same team as your spouse, so that you are both working towards the same things - together.
  • ​Raw Truth - You need to see what's really going on in your marriage and what's really causing the problems in order to make smart changes.
  • ​Struggling to Solve the Wrong Problems? Most couples waste 80% of their efforts solving problems that don’t matter. The included self-assessments help you better determine where your time and effort should be spent.
  • ​The Reason People Think You CAN'T Change Your Spouse - If you've ever been told or believed you can't change your spouse, it's because of THIS specific technique you were using (which doesn't work!)
  • ​How Men & Women's Differences Compliment Each Other​ - When you don't understand and value each other's differences, you feel constantly frustrated. Learn the key
It Starts With You contains everything you’ll need to understand and implement this method (and a bit more). Every marriage is unique, but these lessons apply universal concepts.

The price of It Starts With You is just $4.99.

Your digital copy of It Starts With You will be delivered to your inbox right away so you can start discovering how to restore or elevate your marriage.

Your purchase today also includes the 3 bonuses at no extra cost.

I know this seems like information overload, but I’ve done my best to organize It Starts With You so you’ll be able to immediately gain new insights you can rapidly apply…

...while having a blueprint you can follow to resolve old hurts, restore intimacy and attraction, finally feel valued, and have a marriage others envy.

I’m also including the 3 bonuses above at NO COST with your order today.

These bonus courses and workshops are designed to compliment what you’ll learn inside It Starts With You.
Chris Parsons
I Empower Marriage Transformation
Thanks for taking the time to read this far.

I’ve been working with married individuals since 2017.

Here are a few of the problems I've helped clients solve in their marriage:
  • Toxic, Heated Arguments
  • "Dead Bedroom" (sexless marriage)
  • Feeling Unappreciated and Not Valued
  • ​Bitterness and Resentfulness
  • ​Feeling Inadequate
  • Broken Trust
  • Emotional Walls
  • ​Critical Spouse
  • ​And many, many more.
Back in 2017, I started helping individuals who were struggling in their marriage...

Telling them what I had done to fix things in their own marriage.

That taught me about the level where changes in marriage really come from and crystallized the process for radically transforming marriages...



Turning a Small Shift into a Total Marriage Transformation



After helping married individuals, instead of couples, I found that it only takes ONE to start the change...

I intuitively knew that, because I had started the change in my marriage, but it really showed the power of taking personal responsibility...

I was never only concerned with my own happiness in marriage. I knew that if my wife wasn't happy, any happiness I found for myself would be short-lived, and that I couldn't make her happy without also valuing my own happiness. But it was really embracing personal empowerment that changed everything for me...

Almost every aspect of my marriage improved after embracing my own power and responsibility to create the change.

Over time, I’ve worked to perfect the process, identifying every key ingredient to a Happy, Healthy Marriage and finding the special mechanism that makes it work...

What I can promise is that you’ll discover take-away insights, methods, and strategies that you can immediately implement into your marriage…

...and you’ll discover an approach to using personal empowerment to start the change in your marriage even if your spouse doesn't want to change...

See you on the inside,

Chris “The Marriage Whisperer” Parsons






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